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About Lind Butler, MEd, LPC

Lind is a Licensed Professional Counselor and Family Therapist in Houston, Texas, with more than 40 years of experience aiding those with depression, anxiety, relationship, and family issues. Her personal experiences, education, and clinical background enhance her therapy effectiveness. She provides a warm, safe space where clients feel acknowledged and can express their feelings and needs.

How Anxiety Affects Couples—Ways to Manage It Together

When one partner struggles with anxiety—the entire relationship climate can shift. What once felt like a safe, secure partnership may begin to feel confusing, frustrating, or isolating for both people. Anxiety influences how partners communicate, connect, and support each other, often creating unseen emotional barriers.

By |2025-07-29T14:59:41-05:00July 29th, 2025|Anxiety, impact of anxiety on relationships, Relationship Counseling|Comments Off on How Anxiety Affects Couples—Ways to Manage It Together

The Cost of Comparison: Measuring Yourself Against Others Hurts More Than It Helps

Comparison often silences our inner voice and stems from a fear that we’re not enough. But healing begins when we turn inward—when we listen to our own voice, honor our own story and stop using others as a measuring stick for our worth.

By |2025-07-27T23:06:46-05:00July 27th, 2025|Growth and Change, Self Esteem|Comments Off on The Cost of Comparison: Measuring Yourself Against Others Hurts More Than It Helps

Maintaining Your Sense of Self in Relationships: Staying Connected Without Losing Yourself

In any loving relationship, closeness is natural and necessary. But without a healthy sense of self, it’s easy to become emotionally entangled to the point of losing your own identity. If you’ve ever felt like you were losing yourself in a relationship or struggling to maintain your independence, you’re not alone. This post explores [...]

By |2025-07-27T23:12:04-05:00July 27th, 2025|Couples, Relationship Counseling|Comments Off on Maintaining Your Sense of Self in Relationships: Staying Connected Without Losing Yourself

Trust through transparency in Relationships: How Couples Therapy Can Help

In personal relationships, trust is the glue that holds everything together. It is what allows individuals to be vulnerable, knowing that they won't be betrayed or taken advantage of. Without trust, relationships stagnate; individuals detach which causes distance; communication breaks down; and bonds weaken. Trust is the confidence we place in [...]

By |2024-06-29T11:22:29-05:00June 19th, 2024|Couples, Marriage Therapy, Relationship Counseling, Trust and Transparency|Comments Off on Trust through transparency in Relationships: How Couples Therapy Can Help

Finding Balance: Closeness and Separateness

  “Love one another, but make not a bond of love:  Let it rather be a moving sea between souls.” Kahlil Gibran                                                                   [...]

By |2020-10-30T18:30:21-05:00December 31st, 2019|Marriage Therapy, Relationship Counseling|Comments Off on Finding Balance: Closeness and Separateness

PERFECTIONISM, A GIFT OR A CURSE?

Perfectionism is the voice of the oppressor, the enemy. It will keep you cramped and insane your whole life. – Anne Lamott Ever wonder why some people, no matter how well they do in life, (job, school, relationships, financial, friendships), they always feel anxious and on the brink of not feeling “good enough”? Perfectionism [...]

By |2020-10-30T22:55:28-05:00August 21st, 2019|Growth and Change, Guilt, Perfectionism|Comments Off on PERFECTIONISM, A GIFT OR A CURSE?

The Trauma of Betrayal

  Infidelity fractures the very foundation of a marriage. The discovery of a partner’s betrayal and infidelity is devastating because it shatters basic assumptions about the security we expect in committed relationships.The disorienting after effects of this trauma of betrayal resemble the psychic disorientation and confusion that we see in victims of earthquakes or other [...]

By |2020-10-30T18:30:21-05:00June 19th, 2019|Communication in Relationships, Marriage Therapy, Relationship Counseling|Comments Off on The Trauma of Betrayal
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